How to Use a Dildo for Vaginal & Anal Play

If you think that the practice of using dildo is shameful or awkward, think again. These days, dildos are considered a healthy and fun alternative to classic sex. It also can be used as a great accessory that will help you explore new dimensions of your sexuality. 

But in case you need more convincing, in today’s article, we’re sharing surprising reasons why using a dildo can be a great choice for you and your sexual partner. 

Outercourse and Role-Playing 

No matter your partner’s sex, dildos are a great way to spruce up your love life. They can be effectively utilized when role-playing or during the warm-up stage. 

If your partner is a visual creature, it would be a good idea to feed their eyes with a sexy show. Play a nasty, submissive, innocent, or sophisticated lover and get your partner to watch you masturbate with a dildo. At the same time, don’t allow them to feel left out. Put your loved one in the action by giving them a blowjob or cunnilingus while getting some penetration from your sex toy. 

Now you’re all set for juicier sexual exploits!

Anal Stimulation

Anal sex is beginning to look like an everyday thing to couples. Treat your lover to this penetration type and show how exciting it can actually be with anal toys.  

Finger your partner a little bit so that they can get accustomed to this type of play. Massage your sex buddy’s body and get down to their anal opening and perineum. Rub their erogenous zones with a tip for a minute or two. This will serve as a great tease and prepare the anus for further penetrations.

Generously spread some lube across the head of your anal dildo and once your partner is fully aroused, get them all in. Have them lie on the back, with their knees up. Thrust the tool gently into their anus and start twisting. 

The people behind Love & Lust suggest learning about these toys and how to incorporate them into intimacy in ways that feel comfortable and exciting. They also recommend exploring different shapes and sizes to discover what best enhances connection and pleasure.

Alternatively, you secure your dildo on the wall and start pushing your hole to this magic instrument. Back and forth, back and forth… 

• Turn on your favorite vibration or heating mode to amplify the sensations even more and watch your partner burst into a fantastic climax. 

Vaginal Stimulation 

At the foreplay stage, do wonders with your tongue on your partner. In the heat of oral sex, get a dildo and get carried away. 

Allow the arousal to build up by starting it slow and then gradually increasing the speed. As you both gain momentum, you can further experiment with your dildo. Pull it out and push it in again, thrust along the entire length, and do much more to get really high. 

Happy owners of dildos that feature rotary handles can turn them around to please their pussies even more. Also, let the dildo slide into remote pockets around the cervix.  For more intense G-spot pressure, opt for a dildo with an elongated head and curvy texture. It’s ideal for twisting and tessellating along the G-spot contours. 

If you or your partner is a fan of shallow penetration, go for a dildo with a thick, flashlike corona. Use short and rapid strokes and then try rocking it out. 

• To get the most out of your masturbation session, try alternating shallows strokes with deep thrusts. 

Insert your dildo into the vagina and move it back and forth at a preferred angle. Apply extra pressure to the bottom wall of the vagina. Then, attend to the top vaginal wall to see where it feels better. For firmer pressure and enhanced friction, opt for glass or porcelain models. Extra bumps and ridges can also be a perk if you strive for a mind-blowing stimulation. 

It’s also a great idea to insert your dildo all the way into your vagina and let it sit there while playing with your clit. Just choose the right dildo for stationary stimulation. 

• Partners can also use double-ended dildos for shared pleasure, especially if they want to climax simultaneously. 

There’s a wide range of dildos that are just ideal for all types of stimulation. Just take your pick!